How to unlove someone

How to unlove someone

How to unlove someone

1 Distract yourself
Focus on yourself. A project. Exercise. Try to accomplish as much as possible in other areas of your life.
Focus on your own life.
It’s about distracting yourself and putting a lot of effort in doing things that fulfil you. 
If you want to unlove someone, you need to stop thinking about the question: “How to unlove someone?” and focus on things that make you feel good about yourself!

2. Fall in love with SOMETHING else
The worst thing you can do after a break-up is to get involved with another person.
You’ll end up comparing that new guy/girl to your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend. Your wounds will never heal that way. 
It would be torture trying to have a good time with someone and still remembering the good times you used to have with someone else.
Rebound relationships are a dead-end street, and you should definitely stay away from entering them. 
Don’t waste your time thinking that if you fall in love with someone else, you will forget your ex!
Instead, be free to fall in love with something else. The best way to unlove someone is to express that love toward something completely different.
Whether it’s your job, a hobby, or some old passion of yours you completely forgot about.
Simply choose to do something you love, and you’ll end up focusing only on that. Ex who?

3. Disconnect from them
Unfollow them on any social media. It’s not a childish act; it’s an act of a grown man/woman who knows that there is a bit of truth in the old saying: ‘Far from the eyes, far from the heart’. 
You don’t have to be tempted to watch their Instagram stories a couple of times a day.
You don’t need to know what they’re doing or where they’re going. It’s okay to act like they don’t even exist for a while. In order to unlove someone, you must first forget about them.

4. Spend time with yourself
Now that you’re not in a relationship anymore, you have much more free time.
What you choose to do with that time could benefit you in many ways. You can now focus on self-growth. And booty growth as well! 
Hit the gym! Make your body healthy and your muscles stronger. Or, in case you don’t like going to the gym, you can always spend some time in nature.
Go hiking, biking, skiing… There are many activities you can do that benefit your health. 
Be creative, sing,dance, paint, write!

5. Spend time with your friends and family
Take a trip with your family. 
Reconnect with other people from your life through different activities.
The process of unloving someone results in loving everything else that has a part in your life, starting with yourself, your interests, and your family. 

6. Don’t think about love
Don’t think about your love life. Don’t think about your future husband/wife and how many kids you’ll have with them.
Don’t imagine what your life is going to be like. Don’t think that the new person will be worse than the person you’ve broken up with.

7. You are single now.
You are who you are. You love what you love. Accept your life the way it is.
Self-acceptance is important in order to live your life to the fullest. 
By accepting yourself the way you are, you will be easier for others to love, and the future of your love life won’t be that dark after all.
Making yourself feel bad about things that happen to you won’t make you lovable; it’ll only make you less attractive. Smile! 

9. Socialize
Go out. Spend some time with your friends. Have fun. Meet new people. 
Don’t worry, destiny has perfect timing. Falling in love is easier than falling out of love, so it’ll take you less time to meet someone new and fall in love again than to unlove someone

10. Talk to a therapist
If all else fails, you can always go and talk to a professional. Don’t be ashamed of that. It’s a shame not to admit when you need help. You have to be able to understand your feelings and your needs.

11. Listen to meditations
Listen to self love meditations. And heal the inner child.

Be your own rock, and always remember to love yourself first. Take care of your health and your emotions. 
And remember: nothing is as attractive as a smile on your face!

BUT If you really want this ex back I can help you
Either to move on OR get back together.

​How to unlove someone

How to unlove someone